Wednesday, 25 October 2017

Toxic...So called family


Sometimes I do wonder, why Human are so FAKE?! When there is chance, they will gather and talk bout eachother bad. Wont they feel bad for that particular person?Nonsense! of cuz they won't! If they will then they won't be doing that, Right?!

Ok.Ok. Small case then. Next, If they wish to talk bout others, and please, don't make the 3rd party going through a hard time even making everyone who involve hating eachother to death?

To the ONE person, ya, you have started the argument, the hate and also making everyone hating eachother. What do you feel? Happy? proud? And You have achieve your goal. And what benefits​ can you get? People will thank you? NO NO NO . You are very wrong, they only used you and now they all are keeping quiet and let you die and Rot all by your self.


Many of you has been wondering , What's happening my life? Why do I post so much chinese since I don't know how to write/read chinese. Why I'm being scold by others in my own post? So today I will reveal what's really happening.

It all started from my father generation. He has 1 elder sister and 7 older brother's. So he is the smallest and also fierest among all the brothers and sisters.

From their generation, the brothers is not getting well and each of them has problems with eachother, which makes uS, the younger generation relations is not that perfect.

Long story short, case number 1 ...Recently one of my uncle passed away, which gives us a chance to gather and resolve older generation hates and anger. we all, the cousins, has come to a statement and agree to pushed the anger and hates towards eachother and starting a new and happy relation.

WIthin this period of time, we had arranged a family gathering It was pleasant and unforgettable.

After 2 to 3 months talking to eachother towards a Wechat group (talked day and night for whole 3 months nonstop everyday) suddenly I feel strange. Some of the members became quiet and even Starting to removing themself from the group. As the group admin, I feel I have the responsible to understand what's happening. And the real stories Started now.

Eventually they have started another group without me inside... One of my so called cousin, has belive another one of my so called cousin, saying me that I CURSED her daughter to death! Wahlau! my mouth So powerful one Meh? can curse people till dead one ah?! then if i now opening a stall, people give me money and I can straightly cause the people to death. I rich jor leh. You guys no need hire assassin liao.Pay me money and I curse them to die. Funny right?!

FYI, if any of you guys read my blog, I'm here telling you the truth. (8 years ago) Your daughter death is not related to me at all. She has Cerebral Palsy since birth, eventually She will have seizure and other complication during all her lifetime. By that particular day, you are attending your youngest son kindergarten 6 year old graduating concert and ceremony. Your mom called you and tell you that your daughter look not well and asking you to Come back ASAP to bring your girl to the doctor. But you didn't come home straight away, you stated that the teacher is not releasing your son untill the concert end. You guess will us believe what the teacher said? (verified your own)

And so your mom waited, She feels something doesn't feels right, the daughter face has turned blue. Your mom give up to call you so she called your husband and your husband is rushing home from work which is quite far away, upon your husband arrival, the daughter condition is very critical, so he rushed her to the hospital and before reaching the hospital, she's already dead...from my point of view, why non of you guys think of calling an ambulance? Maybe if you, the mother rushed back, she will live longer, maybe you guys called an ambulance on time, she will still living today...anyway, after all the  funeral settled, she, the mother of the dead, blaming her mother, the care taker of her special daughter....blaming her killed her daughter...omg, see, how brainless she is? Your mother don't know how to react by that time, but she called you at the 1st moment and you are so obsessed with your son's ceremony and ask her to wait for your return....

I don't know and that is what it is, anybody ask I will only say the truth, and now you blame me curse your daughter to death which I'm staying 15 minute away from your house and I'm not there when everything is happening...ah, in case you wondering why do i know so much? Is because your mom told us...I'm not making stories, you wanna verified, you ask your mom...dare to do, then dare to receive the concequences and question throwed by others people.

You guys the reader, verified your own the whole story.

Back to a few paragraph up....this is the reason why we fight...never figure out why people are naive and never reflect....

fyi...is you the one who pleased my dad to forgive all of you <my dad has locked him self from these toxic so called family members for few years already, because there's too much drama going on> She said to my dad that the uncles are ald old, and my father is not doing that well too, let us forget previous argument and move on....and we choose to believe your words. Stop all the hate and go to visit her dad...their financial is not that well too so my dad give his brother RM2000...


Eventually, they won't feel thanks or what so ever...and now they are saying that my dad used money to buy back their broken relation...omg...funny xia...why in earth we wanted to do so, is because he is my father brother, a brother respect towards his big brother..or my dad feels giving them some money to help then ease family problem...is that wrong too? Who the one which call and ask us to visit them back? And now you are shooting us back with those words....if you guys hate us so bad...then why you guys never returning our money? Return our money la! Hate our money too! Get money then now ran away and side with those brainless so called cousin...

I rather donate it to beggars...at least they will Say thank you and didn't  back stab me.
In got my lesson, not everyone we can thrust and believe.We throw our heart in, pitying and caring them but eventually they think we must do so and never feel appreciate...like the quotes said



QUANTITY DOESN'T MATTER, QUALITY MATTERS THE MOST

Yes, you have a plenty of members stand by you, but can you verified they are not fake? Our behaviour is being this way since back then... we will talk straight forward, I think is far more better than those who smile for you and stab you back later on.

For her daughter and son, I believe you will read my blog, please verify everything before you guys jumping into conclusion of hating me as well. Your mother has been used by other people to make thing going worst. All the above thing i said is true.Im not that kind of people who like to ruin people relation.

And

I am not taking money to buy back relation....
I can survive well without you guys...why do I need to donate to you guys with that amount of money? I can use for travel and also i can eat great meal with that amount of money...

Anyway, you guys has agree to erase all the bad back then and now you guys are digging thing 8 years back? Do you guys feel ashamed of what you guys promised?!


Ok...case number 2...

Do you still remember the moment I tell you guys recently an uncle has passed away? Ya, that uncle has bad relation with his own small family...is like he is going out with a lady out there and ignoring his own wife and kids....so end up the wife and kids announced it on news that they will break up their relation with my uncle...

10 years has passed, he has no family member, been kicked out by his mistress, and end up my dad is his only support he has...

Eventually, lots of thing happening within the 10 years. Happy day, bad day, laugh and argument...they both fight and get back together...siblings right? Which siblings doesn't fight?

And till the end of his path, is my dad is the one who claim his corps...

fyi...he is living by his own at his boss hostel...we didn't see him for a couple of months, no one called or what so we assume he is still in a great shape...but unfortunately, in a morning, we received a call, a call from the apartment management, the floor swiper mention that the unit that my uncle staying is very smelly. And in a second we think "shit ! It's happening" we prayed and preyed that what we think is not what we will get...

Yes, he is dead...sitting at the floor backed by a sofa...dry, black and smell...they assume that he has passed away for more than a week...
So after we found him, we tried to contact his family member. Mean his ex wife and kids....and luckily we found his son and his son is a very good guy...we are still contacting now =)
And for the haters....haters always has stories....they poke our back, saying how insincere we are, we are talking bad at the death uncle back then, saying that we hate him so much etc etc...

Btw as I mention above, which siblings doesn't fight? They fight and they get back together and my dad knows his position....no one will care him other than my dad his own...

We have done everything and we are not feeling sorry for our self....for those who comment so so much and stabbing behind our back..
Keep quiet! You have done nothing and you didn't even attending our uncles funeral! You have no right to comment!

From now on, I will remove you guys from my life...without you guys, I will live happily as before...


Detox...cleanse....removing toxic people

I have learnt my lesson so well....you guys may hate me but I believe god will have a new path for me...god has his planning....eventually he is removing you guys from my life means he has something more meaningful for me to run.




Stand up for your family...don't let bullies bully